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Who Forgot to Pack the Protégée?

 

All We Know: Three Lives by Lisa Cohen (Farrar, Strauss & Giroux, 429 pages, $30).

Time to make room for a new biography in the bookcase. But where do I shelve it?

After Here Lies the Heart by Mercedes de Acosta, between Diana McLellan’s The Girls and Loving Garbo by Hugo Vickers? In what proximity to Diana Souhami’s sparer Greta and Cecil or Maria Riva’s spare-no-details book about her mother, Marlene Dietrich? Or should it go on the Paris-in-the-Twenties shelf beside A Moveable Feast, Henry and June and Living Well is the Best Revenge by Calvin Tomkins—staying close to Stein’s Picasso and Genêt by Brenda Wineapple, about Janet Flanner?

Maybe it belongs nearer to my deviant Vidals, Sexually Speaking in particular. That would house it comfortably close to A.L. Rowse’s dated classic, Homosexuals in History. It would share a shelf with The Portrait of Dorian Grey. But how close should it really get to David Leavitt’s biography of suicide Alan Turing, The Man Who Knew Too Much?

Oh bugger it. My cataloging system is a mess. I have no idea where to put this fresh take on three Minor Moderns, All We Know, by Wesleyan professor Lisa Cohen. More than a decade in the making, benefiting from countless interviews of Greatest Generation raconteurs like the late Sybille Bedford, it’s study of Esther Murphy the intellectual, Mercedes de Acosta the celebrity seducer and Madge Garland the fashion director, three eccentrics born in the 1890s.

All three came of age between the wars and took their seats with the chattering classes in New York, London, Paris and Hollywood to survey Modern culture from the Algonquin, from Bloomsbury and the Deux Magots, from Marlene Dietrich’s kitchen and other high-status perches. Till now, these tastemakers have been regularly cast as minor historical characters in support roles. Or else, as Joan Schenkar wrote about Dolly Wilde in Truly Wilde, their lives “were merely ‘noticed’, not ‘recorded.'”

Minor League to Major League

The argument Cohen makes in All We Know is that each woman led a life of major significance in the development of Modernism. If history never nominated Murphy or Acosta or Garland for Best Actress to run against Beauvoir or Barney or Stein, it’s history’s mistake. Blame the Academy, not the performance.

Cohen locates the error easily. History forgets that Modernism never went anywhere without a bent girl on her arm. Women’s liberation was at the core of what the Modern era was about, Cohen reminds us. And what women were freer than those like Acosta, Murphy and Garland who risked their status and their livelihoods to love and make lives with other women? Cohen pulls these women off the bench and puts them back on the field as major players.

At the same time, the biographer reckons with evidence of underachievement and attention deficit. All three of her subjects were married lesbians who lived complex double (sometimes triple) lives. Did they squander their considerable talents out of wasted energy? All three made marks on their eras and stamped their professions but never achieved their dreams or created enduring artworks. Were they failures? Sure, they all had women lovers and paired off with other dykes, but none of their relationships endured, and it’s sometimes hard to know from these short-form biographies whether sex and love were major driving forces in any of their lives. Were they even gay enough to be truly inspiring? I wonder. What’s a lesbian anyway?

This book has gotten high praise from exceptional biographers like Michael Holroyd. Before lauding the meticulous research by Cohen, a serious academic with impeccable credentials, the mainstream reviews try hard to bring readers up to speed on who Cohen’s subjects were. Soon enough they’ve reached the word limit, without enough reflection on what Cohen is really writing about. She’s writing about the utility and limits of protecting your private life from public scrutiny, known by that clubby word “discretion.” She’s writing about the benefits and costs of disguising yourself. She’s writing about core competencies like sex and conversation and getting dressed that rise to the level of high art at the hands of master practitioners, but are really hard for biographers to archive and, therefore, to write about. She’s writing about really interesting people who are really hard to write about.

More Wild Girls

So before you get in the Bugatti screaming for the Hotel du Cap, here’s the scoop on whom you’ll be riding with. (“It’s not who you know,” the Mark Cross heiress Esther Murphy scolds you as you slide in, “it’s whom you know.”) Her living art is her intellectual conversation, just as Natalie Barney’s living art is her serial seduction. Both are ephemeral; both are hard to pin down on paper; but I see you’re in this car, not in that one with Barney and Brooks. So by all means, introduce yourself to Hemingway’s pal, FItzgerald’s sidekick, Gerald Murphy’s sister. She speaks any language you can throw at her, including the dead ones. She will tell you her name is Madame de Maintenon. She’ll give her address as Versailles, Louis quatorze. Just go with it. As for her nonstop monologuing, just remind yourself that this is the Modern era, where motoring is like the Slow Food movement. Why not let her seduce you with oratory? Ask her anything, and you know she’s into you when she pauses optimally before launching in with, “Well, all we know is…”

Madge Garland, very easy on the eyes, has been the editor of British Vogue since forever. You can tell by the dominatrix subtext and the pearl bracelets. Yes, it’s okay to call it “Brogue,” darling, but don’t even think of getting in the car half-dressed. You may don trousers only on arrival. But deep down, Madge fancies the man in you, and at least she’s not drunk, which is becoming a problem with Esther. Mind your pees and queues with Madge, the only woman in her postwar posse who earned every penny she ever spent. Let her give you the 300 level course on sexy runway models (A Thousand Years of Beautiful Women). Engage her in highbrow discussions about architecture and design, dazzle her with the university degrees she never attained, flash your ankles, and I predict you’ll have a memorable ride. Just don’t eat. Don’t try to get her to dish about any of her girlfriends. “The person I wish would come live with me doesn’t want to do it,” she said during World War II. That’s about as far as you’ll get on her status.

Not so with Mercedes de Acosta. She’s got a stamen up your skirt if you’re anywhere near starfuckable. My advice is, let her give it to you. Her body is her medium, and sex is her performance art. They say it’s a once-in-a-lifetime experience. She’ll tell you she’s a fan. Just go with it. Worse things have happened on the way to the Riviera. Just don’t forget to tweet your publicist with a heads-up on damage control. You’ll get down there only to find that every female celebrity known to man is also known to Acosta, and that spells cat fights  on the red carpet. No wonder she can’t get steady work as a screenwriter, even though she’s a Buddhist with a hip yoga teacher. She’s collecting Playbills and making notes for a tell-all memoir. Be forewarned.

Lisa Cohen’s interesting book lies unopened in the footwell on a ride like this. But keep it by the bedside and take it one chapter at a time. You’ll try once again to make sense of a tangled web of social networks linked by three friends who knew one another well. You’ll wonder what it’s like to spend fifteen years failing to write a book you’re the world expert on, like Esther Murphy. You’ll watch Madge Garland rise to prominence in fashion at Vogue, only to get sacked for living with somebody with an Eton crop who’s raising her secret daughter as a niece. This will remind you to rent THE KILLING OF SISTER GEORGE again on Netflix.

Back to the book, Garland’s section is the longest, informed by the author’s experience as a fashion writer. Sacked again and again, Garland rises from the ashes in Schiaparelli, proving that fashion, far from frivolous, was serious business for women between the wars. And has been ever since.

Did They or Didn’t They

Keep reading. You’ll attend the unsealing of Greta Garbo’s letters to Mercedes de Acosta at the stuffy Rosenbach library, only to find that “nothing’s there,” and you’ll wonder why it matters so much to know whether the two were really lovers. Is it because Garbo’s heirs seem to fear being tainted by knowing where the star’s heart had really lain (or lied, or got laid), if sex and Eros with Acosta can be proven? Or is it because we know, deep down, that no lesbian ruins her life over anything less?

Of Cohen’s three subjects, Acosta remains the hardest character to pin down. Cohen defines her as a “fan” and reads her life as one where celebrity obsession fueled compulsive collecting and stalking behaviors that filled her with shame afterwards. Acosta’s mysticism and her Romantic virility (both rare qualities in New York society where Mercedes grew up–as rare today as they were then) are explored less, but those who knew her well, like Alice Toklas, never underestimated the appeal.

There may be an argument to be made that Acosta, even more than Garland, knew where history was heading in “the American century” and had a reasonable plan for leading it there. Foresight in business, as in Hollywood, never lacks sex appeal. With this in mind it may be worth rethinking how shrewd Acosta really was in following her instincts. I can almost hear her mentor, Bessie Marbury, advising Acosta to leverage her esoteric assets to pursue power and influence that would trump the strong suit she’d been born with—but would never be able to play out as a New York lesbian. With better life skills, would Acosta have been the lesbian Wallis Simpson? (Like Garland and Murphy, she could not manage herself: fatal for a courtesan, as she should have known from reading Liane de Pougy.)

One thing’s for damn sure, as Gertrude Stein would have said. Acosta wasn’t the only Hollywood player with a lesbian seduction plan. Cohen quotes Dietrich, exasperated by Acosta’s vanity. But Dietrich pursued Acosta shamelessly in 1932, cruising her at a performance then turning up unannounced on Acosta’s doorstep, as soon as she learned it was over between Acosta and Garbo.

(Garbo, incidentally, had just been weakened by a bank failure that changed her financial prospects overnight. Instead of looking at the retirement she’d saved for, she was suddenly looking at another decade of brutal assignments to recover stability. Garbo was a hard worker to begin with, plus she was insomniac, hardly a natural at glamour, and it took everything she had to produce the studio image required of her on a daily basis. Anyone under those circumstances needs unswerving emotional support, plus dinner on the table after a rough day at work: idolatry on the order of Pougy in her Blue Notebooks phase. Even with the title Princess Ghika or similar, I can’t imagine Acosta measuring up to that challenge. Has anyone ever wondered if Garbo left Acosta for cause? Could that possibly be what all the fuss was all about?)

Well, in any case, mystery still shrouds Acosta. She would appreciate the irony.

Failure and Other Modern Mysteries

And so, along with Murphy the drunk and Garland the anorexic during the incubation period of what’s now our global “celebrity culture,” Acosta with her status addiction rounds out Lisa Cohen’s portrait of its early victims.

From beginning to end in All We Know, you’ll read about failure—failure to produce, failure to achieve, failure to exhibit, failure to earn, failure to thrive, failure to sustain love and sexual attraction and lasting domestic narratives. And you’ll wonder why there still isn’t more discussion about failure, on the part of all three of these women, to bequeath their considerable legacies. Legacies that we all now have to dig in the dirt for like archaeologists. Or novelists.

Why didn’t our genius great-grannies raise protégées? Perhaps Prohibition, the Crash and two world wars really did get in the way. Or perhaps the Modern Woman just never had the time.

Tabou

Stuck on Fifty Shades of Grey?

I just finished Book 1 of the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy. Have you read it? It’s the latest thing in popular erotica, and I can see why. The erotic scenes are steamy and the subject matter is taboo, and yet there’s something comforting and predictable about the summer reading formula, complete with the voyeuristic impulse that goes with the status envy.

The “serious” literary press has trashed the writing, which I find too thin for my taste, but as an author of erotica I have high praise for aspects of this work by the TV-producing mum, E.L. James. I heartily approve of the compulsive contraception. More foil packets are torn in Fifty Shades than in all five seasons of “Queer as Folk.” And guys, seriously: if you don’t have a clue what a girl wants or needs in the nude (whips and chains aside), read this book. Finally, the best instruction may be for aspiring lawyers. If you are studying for the bar and you’re worried about failing Torts, this book reprints contracts in a mesmerizing, even sultry, fashion. If you forget key clauses here, forget hanging your shingle anywhere near me.

So why am I not rushing to dip into the second book?

It could be sensory overload. When they drank the Sancerre with the pasta I was thinking, whoa, baby, save something for dessert ! Guess I’m just a Picpoul-with-my-pasta kinda girl.

But I bet the real reason why my Kindle is still on low burn is that I’m waiting for my champagne delivery, in the form of Eros, the wonderful back issue of Lapham’s Quarterly from Winter 2009. I’ll savor that as long as I can before firing the Kindle back up Fifty Shades Darker.

Lapham’s Eros: now there’s a pretty girl bound to turn your head. Order it online—go ahead, command it!—from laphamsquarterly.org and tell me what you think.

This Family Business

NAZI SCIENTIST and the Household Paradox

Every Memorial Day reminds me of our big household paradox. My spouse and film production partner, Amy Gerber, is only three years younger than I am, and yet we are a generation apart. How about that for a slice of “This American Life”?

So what’s in a generation?

Social scientists and demographers define a generation as “a group of people living together at the same time” and measure it by its duration—20 to 22 years—when children grow up and have children of their own. By that definition, Amy and I appear to be marching in step, although we had our first child well into our thirties.

Recently, though, after working many years on a film about World War II and the Cold War, we’ve discovered that age isn’t the biggest factor shaping the identity of our generation. Nor are the defining moments we share together, especially in wartime. Sure, those are powerful forces. We acknowledge them this weekend, honoring the American war dead from present-day armed conflicts, honoring all our forebears who ever fought and died in wars leaving families behind, and grieving them in the same breath.

As it turns out, the defining moments that shaped our parents’ generation have just as much (if not more) to do with how we fit into the world around us. Why? Because they stamped our families indelibly, and we grew up with that imprinting. Every generation is just as much a collection of families, by definition, as it is a collection of individuals. What else, besides family, travels with us from cradle to grave?

As Amy and I both know, when a parent experiences war firsthand and relives it with a young child, the child makes sense of a chaotic, frightening and often senseless world by studying and learning how the parent coped with that hardship. These are the lessons the child never unlearns. These are the stories the child never forgets. This is the worldview the child will carry into adulthood.

These are things Amy and I both learned, growing up in households where both our fathers had vivid boyhood memories of starvation and war….only they were boys in different eras, and they were on opposite sides of the same war.

Two dads on opposite sides

My father remembered the Depression. He served in the U.S. Navy during World War II, fighting against Nazi perpetrators. Amy’s father was held hostage in a German POW camp as a boy of six, the son of a Nazi scientist watching Allied “liberators” become perpetrators overnight in the hunt for German assets to be plundered. My father said he nearly died of boredom during his mostly uneventful tour of duty in the Pacific. Amy’s father nearly died of starvation. World War II made a man out of my father. It robbed my father-in-law of his childhood. He had children early; my father waited until he was 40 to have his first child.

What shapes a worldview?

My father was proud of winning a war of battles that he framed as a struggle of freedom against tyranny. He measured himself against his distant grandfather John Hart, who signed the Declaration on July 4, 1776, escaped British occupation of his farm, and lost everything he owned in the fight for independence. To win was to pool common resources, to form the best organization, and to engage the enemy out in the open. Like Cincinnatus, my father went back to his farm and his brewing business after the war, and paid little attention to its aftermath.

When Amy’s grandfather was taken away by US Army intelligence officers in Operation Paperclip, her father saw with his own eyes that the real winner of that war had yet to be declared in 1945. Whoever ended up with the most technology would be the true victor. To win was to sequester resources, to steal secrets and keep them, to work behind closed doors, and to engage the enemy in the shadows. The boy’s first challenge was simply to survive captivity. He was proud of that—proud of his wartime role as an asset to be plundered for the benefit of his new country, the US. He measured himself against his distant grandfather, Goethe, and went on to play his own part in the family tradition that had spawned generations of scientists in his paternal line.

These men had completely different worldviews. We, their daughters, discovered them by asking, “Dad, what are you proudest of? What did you risk in the war? What would you be willing to risk in the future, and why?” As a result of those intimate conversations and early imprinting, Amy and I will always hail from different generations.

Und trübte: our new documentary

The story of what Amy’s German grandfather did in the war; how he was smuggled into the US to continue his top-secret physics work in New Jersey even though he was convicted as a Class II war crimes offender back in Germany; and why her dad ended up in captivity with his mother and siblings, is told in Amy’s fearless documentary film, MY GRANDFATHER WAS A NAZI SCIENTIST: Opa, von Braun and Operation Paperclip, which we produced together. (Amy’s father, a physicist like his father before him, has now spent a lifetime working for the US government as an American citizen.)

We decided to release the film this weekend on DVD because it seemed like the perfect time to intrigue our core audience, made up of the World War II buffs and the Cold War aficionados among the so-called “Greatest Generation.” War was the defining event in the lives of our fathers born on opposite sides, men who raised American daughters the same age of different generations. As parents, Amy and I will spend the rest of our lives bridging that gap to establish our own identity as a German-American family that World War II brought together. Maybe that’s why Amy dedicated her film to our daughter.

Buy the DVD now on Amazon. Follow events on Facebook. Have a great holiday weekend.

 

Inkbarrow, Movies, OKA!

Fifteen Minutes with Suzanne on OKA!

—————an INK BARROW dispatch—————-

Here’s the first of many dispatches by our fearless reporter and social observer, Ink Barrow, the wayward niece of Ed Coaster.

On a gorgeous October day in the Virginia countryside, Ink sat on the porch with Suzanne Stroh, screenwriter of OKA!, the African feature film that opens October 14th in New York and Los Angeles.

Ink: How does it feel to have your first feature in theaters?
SSS: Fantastic. It’s a dream come true for any writer.

Ink: How did you get on the project?
SSS: It grew out of my friendship with the very talented filmmaker, Lavinia Currier, who is also a poet. I think we were talking poetry and poems over drinks in New York when she mentioned her work in CAR [Central African Republic]. She was so passionate about raising awareness, through film, about the plight of the Bayaka and other endangered species in the deep forest. She had two stories in development at that point. She’d gotten pretty extensive coverage, I think, but she still wasn’t sure how to proceed. She invited me to read both screenplays. I remember thinking that somewhere deep down in both stories, each beautiful in its own way, was the tale she wanted to tell. The job, I thought, was to imbue the funny misadventure of the hapless musicologist, Larry Whitman, with the pathos and mystery of OTA BENGA, the unproduced screenplay Lavinia had written with the novelist Rikki Ducornet.

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